Hi tj, just wondering how you are doing, girl? Just aware that you are also facing single parenthood with two little ones and might also need support . (Can't do links but see 'my partner has just been diagnosed with cancer' under Health threads.) If you are lurking you might have seen that we are all trying to be there for Yorkiegirl atm, but please remember that we can all be here for you too, you only have to talk to us. Hope you don't mind me naming you in this way, but I really really hope you are OK.