My dad just died, he is 400 miles away

[nilbyname]

I knew it was coming, but I know he was ready and I said my goodbyes on Sunday with him.

My DH is in leeds, he is coming back now. My kids are with the CM. My other PIL support is in London. We are in Somerset.

I am sort of stuck until tomorrow morning. I feel like I ought to fly up on my own in the morning, and get my DH to come with the children at the weekend. My kids are young and hectic and I feel like I ought to be there for my mum. But I want my DH there for me, but then I think I dont know what to do about my kids....

This is so horrible.

Oh, nilby. I'm so sorry. I think you need to be with your DH and kids. Get there as soon as you reasonably can. ((((Hugs))))

Thank you, we are on our way now. Me and kids and dh, weather is horrid but I am glad we are on our way