The long term partner of a family member died a year ago.
I know from these threads that it means alot to have the memory honoured by other people remembering with a card or a letter.
A Thinking of You type card?
Trouble is I cannot remember the exact date (I will phone her soon) but I was thinking is it ok to send a card a couple of weeks early (rather than a couple of weeks after).
Nothing I do can change the fact it will be a sad day 
but I don't want her to think we've all moved on and forgotten.
Any advice?