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Something nice to say at FIL's funeral?

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xDivAx · 26/08/2012 20:26

FIL died last week after a long battle with cancer. OH's family has asked if I would like to say something at the funeral on Wednesday. Does anyone have a nice poem or similar I can read? I've been looking but nothing really seems to fit with who he was or the relationship I had with him. It was a very special relationship, he was not just my FIL but a very dear friend and I actually had a better relationship with him than I do my own father.

I'm finding it hard to put my feelings into words. Can anyone help?

Thank you in advance.

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BreeVanDerTramp · 26/08/2012 20:30

So very sorry for your loss Sad. My FIL passed away two years ago, we were very close and he was a very special person, we had the poem, Not how did he die, but how did he live? read at the funeral.

I hope you and your family get through the next few days and weeks ahead with each others help x

xDivAx · 26/08/2012 21:15

Bree just looked up that poem and it is so wonderful, it bought me to tears. Thank you for your suggestion and also for your kind words x

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xDivAx · 27/08/2012 00:00

I found...

They say ther is a reason.

And

We thought of you.

Both are nice, I may say both and add a little message at the end.

I honestly can't come to terms with it, it's a devastating loss. He was a fighter though, in January was given 4-6 weeks and lasted til 17th this month. He was only 57 in July.

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horseylady · 27/08/2012 16:21

Try all is well. Lovely poem none religious I read it at mil funeral.

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