Friend's toddler has passed away

[smackapacca]

I didn't know whether to post.

I have my son, and I can't stop breathing him in. My friend no longer does. I can't imagine how it feels. The grief is so raw there's no words and nothing helpful i can do. He was 2.

Is there?

Thanks - what's the worst that can happen? They throw it away... At least they'll know we're thinking of them. I might put in some tea and biscuits too.

I want too be here for the long haul and not go for wild unsustainable gestures that fizzle out after 6 weeks.

sounds like a smart plan, your a good friend