MrsDeVere,
I'm thinking of you today. You shared with us some time last year that your DD died five years ago today, and that last year your family didn't even acknowledge her birthday.
I hope I can speak for every MNer who's talked to you on here and say we are holding you and your DD in our hearts today.
And that goes for any other parents who've lost children.
(I'm sorry I'm posting this so late in the day, it's only 08:17 am here.)