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Even after 5 years it still hurts like it did the day he went

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Theincrediblesulk1 · 27/09/2010 21:12

My son Frazer was stillborn at 36+6 he was 8lbs 2 and 52 cm's long. He has dark curly hair and dark eyes. i wish i could have seen him cry, just once. or open his eyes, move his little legs.
I miss him so much, i have had 2 little boys since and i am so proud of them.They are he best boys a mummy could wish for.

Anyone else want to remember their baby with me?

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frangipan · 27/09/2010 21:16

I haven't been in your situation but your post brought a tear to my eye, I wish you all well xxxxx

QOD · 27/09/2010 21:24

My niece Georgie was stillborn (true knot in cord) 14 years ago yesterday. Gone but not forgotten.
Lots of love to you and your 3 boys XX

Theincrediblesulk1 · 27/09/2010 23:07

Thanks xxxxxx They are always in your heart

My Mum is a survivor,
Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night,
When all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night,
And go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her,
To help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach,
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mum,

Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...
A smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see,
Tears flowing from her eyes.
My mum tries to cope with death,
To keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows,
It is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mum,
Through Heaven's open door...
I try to tell her that angels,
Protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her...
Or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...
No matter what she feels,
My surviving mum has a broken heart,
That time won't ever heal.

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Theincrediblesulk1 · 27/09/2010 23:09

I am so sorry to hear about Georgie this world is so cruel.xxxxxxxx

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QOD · 28/09/2010 20:34

Its poo isn't it - my other neice was brain damaged by the mmr/getting chicken pox all at same time so poor sil has really suffered.

bronze · 28/09/2010 20:37

My brother died at 6 weeks old, 30 years ago this year.
Rest in peace Matthew, I wish I had got to know you and share my life with you as much as I do our other brother.

bronze · 28/09/2010 20:38

I'm so sorry about Frazer and Georgie

SassySusan · 28/09/2010 20:41

I'm sorry to hear about your children.

There is a bereaved mum's thread

Do please come by anytime you want to talk about your son. xx

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