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Friendships in Reception Year

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pipsqueak71 · 27/01/2010 19:05

My five year old daughter is part of a trio of close pals in her reception class. Her teacher has told me & the parents of the other two that they all need to play more with other children. Teacher admitted that the other few girls in this class are either tomboys or loners, ie no other potential playmates. The other reception class is teeming with girly girls and I am now considering whether I should ask that my daughter is moved to the other class. She is the most gregarious of the trio. I feel let down by the school at the strange distribution of children between the two classes which leaves one class with a handful of mis-matched kids and the other class with the more rounded kids. I know I'm probably over-reacting about this though.

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pipsqueak71 · 27/01/2010 21:12

The teacher is an NQT & very young so she's still getting the hang of it.

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Oblomov · 27/01/2010 21:21

shocked at teacher saying this, to be honest !

icarriedawatermelon2 · 27/01/2010 21:32

Did you invite the boys to her party?? I wonder if YOUR trying to shape her friendships based on sterotypes TBH.

SoupDragon · 27/01/2010 21:39

They aren't going to move her to the other class just because you want her moved so I'm glad you've decided not to go with that. Perhaps the "loners" are shy and need encouraging into friendships. Get your DD to identify who she's tried to make friends with and invite them over for tea.

As an aside, I personally think it's a good thing they don't mix the classes up at our school.

pipsqueak71 · 27/01/2010 21:50

Yes of course I invited some boys to her party. I try very hard not to shape her friendships & just want her to have as broad a spectrum as possible from which to choose them.
I've asked my question & it has been answered to my satisfaction so thanks to those who've made constructive comments.
This is the first time I've been on here & it has been interesting.

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