let me whine please about my neices birthday party coming up.

[deanychip]

Am very sad.
She will be big 6. She is SO excited.

Big party booked and all of her class are invited.
My ds is invited, my nephew is invited.
My sister literally HATES both my neice and my son.

I am hoping that she will drop nephew off then go.
I am worrying about what if she stays. I do my very best and upmost to keep her and ds seperate, in fact it has been about a year since she has had any contact with him.

I am feeling very vulnerable at the moment and just havent got a fight in me, but she will expect it, and do nothing to hide her hatred and distaste at him even breathing.

Give me a hug and tell me to grow a pair.

how old is your son?
you can only hate someone who is your equal...I presume he is a child?

ds is 5.

sis is quite quite mad.

her son is 6, niece is 6.
She admits to "tolerating" her own ds, every one elses kids, she says "i fucking hate all kids, but especially your two" (me and my other sisters)

quite quite mad.

sob

hang in there - its one afternoon and then it will be over!

She sounds hateful, poor you.
Grow a pair and stand your ground
Has she always been like this?

yes, always.

Just cant face it, fed up with having to defend him.