Needed help moms

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Hii my son is feb 2023 born
he goes to the preschool for four days since 2years they were no complaints at all on him
since three weeks now almost four times they told me he is pushing other kids he never done anything wrong before me anytime never seen him doing at home with anyone
he plays with the neighbours everyday talking with the people in the community everyday plays in the park and greets everyone on the road
he is good in communication, he knows colours, shapes, numbers till 20 , alphabets staff names in school,
parents name his name
since he is pushing one of the staff member told me this is not normal behaviour that scared us so much
please parents, moms please help me I couldn't understand

Are you able to ask him why is he pushing, and have staff noticed it's always the same child or is he pushing different children each time? It might be that one child in particular isn't sharing or listening, so your son finds this is the only way he is listened to by the other child. He is still only really young, he sounds like a great little boy and I hope it's just a short term, communication issues with another child

Yes i spoke with my son he said he wants to play i think not one child may be two never seen him doing this is it normal behaviour

Have the Pre-School noticed any triggers like hunger, difficulty with sharing or him needing the toilet?

When they say it’s not normal, are they saying that in their Professional experience his behaviour seems a little extreme and he may need some support?

How does he do on this simple progress checker?

Sorry forgot to ask if Preschool have made any suggestions? What do they do now if they notice that he is struggling?

Noo they just told us he was pushing other kids and since this term it is third time telling us and she told me he is having social issues

Ok so are you in England OP? Just asking as I don’t want to give advice that isn’t appropriate for where you live

If they’re saying he has social issues I would definitely do the progress checker that I linked to earlier too. It will tell you if he needs a bit of support

@JustaSongAboutPingPong the link is not opening

Yes am in England

Oh that’s strange. Try here and if that doesn’t work, then google Speech & Language UK Progress Checker.

Let us know what the result is, it shouldn’t take too long to fill in

Ok so if they bring it up again I would ask them what triggers they have noticed and what strategies they are using and which ones they have found help and which ones don’t. It may be best if you ask to speak to the Nursery Manager about this.

You could also ask if they have contacted their Area SENCO for advice.

Have they also suggested that you speak to your HV?

Nursey manager always tells me this is normal behaviour
one of the staff member told me he is having trouble with social skills my concern is they never told us and called for the private meeting always discussed on the pick up