I've realised that I have an anxious attachment style. My husband is an avoidant and unfortunately we are having several issues in our relationship. I am not trying to fix it as he refuses to put in the work, however I feel like before I make any decision, I need to heal from my attachment style. There are several other considerations too, the most significant one being we have kids. I also feel fearful of being alone (not lonely as I already feel like that most of the time in this relationship). Any tips/ tricks I can use day to day to heel from being anxious? I am at such a crossroads right now so if someone has had success from being anxious and then being in a secure relationship, that would be great to hear too.