I am in a bit of shock. My ds (2 years 10m) is so close and affectionate to us. We spend a lot of time together as a family and we might have pampered him more than healthy as well.
Today, when my husband dropped ds at nursery, nursery manager called him into her room. She shared that my ds has a scar on his hand and when asked, he said that his dad hit him. They called in my ds inside, the scar they were referring to was a mark from probably an old scratch. It was a very mild one, that we almost never noticed of its existance.
Firstly, I am in shock. Cannot believe that my ds who clings onto us, could say this. Maybe he doesn't even know what he said means. Nevertheless, Is this common? How do other parents deal with this?
My partners is less in shock. For the past few weeks, my ds has been telling similar stories everyday - "xx from his nursery pushed him/hit him"