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6 year old son, intense phobias - autism

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OneSillyHazelDreamer · 10/01/2026 01:12

Hello, this is my first time posting here so I hope I’ve done this correctly.
My son is 6 (next week) and in year 1 at school. He’s awaiting an autism diagnosis. He has intense fears and phobias of the strangest things, some examples

  • the song wheels on the bus
  • baby dolls (example baby annabel)
  • toys that move and make noise (walking, barking, pretend puppy for example)
  • lullabys
  • golidlocks and the three bears
  • etc

He‘s has these fears from as young as I’d say 2 however it seems to have gotten worse and starting to affect his life. We cannot go places where we predict he may see this things (play groups, garden centres, Xmas displays etc)!
When we are in a new environment, I can see the anxiety beaming off him, he is on constant high alert incase we see any of the above. I have tried my best to just avoid visiting places if I know it’ll upset him however it’s coming to a point where we cannot avoid forever, for example he’s currently learning Goldilocks at school therefore cannot be completely avoided. He has never experienced any trauma or stand out event that would explain these phobias

i am assuming it is linked with his autism however I’m not 100% sure.

my question is, is there some kind of therapy or something similar that can help with this? If so, who do we contact for help? Would it be the GP or would it have to be private?

sorry to ramble, thanks for your time!

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SleafordSods · 10/01/2026 06:28

I’m sorry that he’s so anxious that it’s affecting his life. That must be awful fkr all of you.

I’m not sure what therapy woukd help if I’m honest. Does he receive any therapy as part of his ECHP?

I wonder if you ask in the SN Children section that someone in there will be able to suggest a useful therapy?

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