im on here seaking some advice, my son is 9 almost 10 months old and unlike my first born who easily just started sleeping and self soothing himself in his cot, my youngest will not dare, i feel so much mum guilt because he needs routine and structure but i just cant seem to get him to sleep in his cot. the longest we have done is 20 minutes and thats asleep in my arms then put into cot, i try my absolute hardest and just end up getting so sleep deprived i give in. just seeking some advice/tips really from anyone who may have experienced this. sorry if i havent explained well this is my first post.