I am a mum of 3, my middle child has always been quite strong willed and independent. For the past 3yrs her behaviour has become unacceptable to the point she is putting herself in danger running away staying out god knows where, she just says she hates me and her siblings wants to move out at 16, doesn't go to school. The school have tried everything reduced time tables managed moves the lot she just doesn't want anything, I have had social workers out because of somethings that have happend with a relationship she had, but the hatred and the disrespect is uncalled for we haven't done nothing wrong when I ask what have I done? she says nothing she just hates me, I was there when she was in the bad relationship trying everything to get her away from him, was that what I done wrong the things she is telling me slowly is awful. Not to go into to much detail but if I hadn't turned up well found her one night she could of been dead and to hear that is soul destroying but I tryed everything phoning the police phoning the social worker everything, but it feels like she is punishing me for not doing enough. I am at my whits end I don't know where to turn I have tried everything she has got a appointment with CAHMs but she is saying there is no point in going. Am I really that bad?