I need help!
My 3 year old (turns 4 in May) is currently uncontrollable. For everyone outside of the family home she is an absolute angel, for her dad she can kick off and have tantrums but are never really that bad however for me, she lashes out at me and is in a pure rage at me. (Not 100% of the time but when something doesn’t go her way).
I am fully aware that kids are worse for their mums because the are their ‘safe person’ but there is more to it than this.
Tonight for example, I couldn’t find a certain toy so she started kicking me. This then resulted in her hitting me, biting me, scratching me, she pulled a clump of my hair out from dragging it so hard and she becomes uncontrollable!
I have tried all the basics to try and support her emotional outbursts but I think I/she needs professional help. Please could anyone point me in the right direction? I don’t even know where to start with something like this. (UK based).
Something needs to be done as I can’t be her punch bag all the time 😭