What do you call your dds'...

[SlipOfTheTongue]

"bits"???
DD1 is 3, recently potty trained and is currently obsessed with weeing standing up like Daddy (trying to, at any rate!). I've explained to her that only boys can do that because they have willies (or bellies, as she calls them!) but I'm not sure how to refer to her bits! Anyone got any suggestions that wouldn't sound too obscene coming from the mouth of a 3 year old? Not convinced at the thought of her referring to her fanjo in the presence of FIL!!

I thought fanny would be preferable to 'bits', which was the only alternative we came up with, as at least its a unique word and we're giving the 'bits' a name.

vagina

my DD is 4

round our way, fanny is just fine. it is clear enough for anyone to know what is meant, and like willy (which no-one has a problem with) it is based on a slightly old-fashioned name. I talked about this a lot with lots of friends, it was sad how many of us grew up thinking there was "nothing" or our genitals not referred to at all.

my dd calls her's loulou

Having read several of these threads on MN before I think I'll tell dd that it's her vulva but that people usually call it something else (don't know what yet - foo-foo?) in the same way as stomach/tummy, feet/tootsies, etc

My SIL was told that it was her Susan feel sorry for any girls called Susan in her class! MIL thought breasts were called 'partemies' because when she asked her mum what they were she said 'they're just part of me'!

bits or minnie a friend says lady jane

woodjie (blame flipping dh for that)

but 3NAB the vagins is inside
you can't see it

the bit you can see is your vulva

all the outside bits are her flower

her vagina is her vagina

Toilet parts...does for both dds or ds

pinkspottywellies 'part of me'.

Foo foo here. I might introduce vagina and vulva when my daughter has a cat's chance in hell of being able to pronounce them (she's only 18 months old).

ladybits.

Fanny or Ladygarden

bits.dont know why just do

I don't know why, I have always thought of fanny as a slightly aggressive or vulgar word. Perhaps it has a different and more common usage in the UK - seems that way, as others have also suggested it. Much harder for a girl.

foo foo

bum bum - dd chose that word since she was before 2

MrsBAdger I have lived all my life calling it a vagina, I am sure my DD will not suffer by doing the same.