My daughter is 14m old. She's a very fussy, very easily upset baby. All her life she's spent more of her waking hours crying than content. We don't know why but we're living with it. She's very well looked after and very loved, she's just a miserable baby.
I work full time as a NICU nurse, my husband works full time and we're 3+ hours away from any family so she's in nursery 2 days a week. Almost every time she goes into nursery they message us saying she's miserable and won't stop crying, they can't ask us to pick her up unless she's unwell but they are very much suggesting that they want us to. The thing is if I pick her up, she'll just be equally as miserable at home and we still have to pay the nursery even though they aren't looking after her. I know they have other babies to look after but i can't help but think it's their job and it's what I'm paying them for! Fair enough if she's poorly but there's really nothing I can do about her cyring all the time...please be kind, I've had such a difficult time with her.
She's not great with her sleep and she's got allergies which doesn't help with her fussiness.