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13 month old no words and not cruising

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Jimmyearlworld · 15/10/2022 22:52

Hi all,
my almost 13 month old is a good babbler, says mama and dada, but not directed at me or my husband and has no other words, just babbles and shrieks.
She isn’t able to stand independently either. She can pull up to the couch but only when sitting in my lap and she will not cruise along the furniture. Just stands there. She didn’t start crawling until 11 months so she’s been behind with motor stuff. I saw a substitute pediatrician (our main ped canceled) at our 12 month visit and he said we need to monitor her and to come back in a month at 13 months. I wasn’t too worried until he said he wants to monitor her. On the plus side, she points and shrieks at what she wants and her comprehension seems to be pretty good. Like she’ll crawl to a toy if I tell her to get her giraffe/dinosaur/doggy/lion etc. Or she’ll crawl to daddy when I say go get daddy. I’m a bit worried bc most babies might lag in one area but do well in another where as my lo seems to be behind on both language and motor skills. Another thing that worries me is she only imitates a few sounds that I make. Like smacking my lips or panting like our dog and maybe a few other things. Doesn’t say words back to me. Are they supposed to at this age? Am I worrying too much?
Just wanted to see what you all have to say as I feel like that ped is jumping the gun a bit.

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ollieollie · 20/10/2022 12:32

I don't think she seems behind in language at all !! She's only 13 months I wouldn't expect her to say words yet .... I know some babies do though, but some don't ! my little boy didn't say his first word until 18 months .... honestly can't get him to shut up now (just turned 2 ) . Also it's a really good sign that she points !!! I was actually worried as my little boy also didn't point . He started to again at 18 months , was very late with his language and he's absolutely fine !!

Regarding motorskills I'm sure she will pick it up soon , I know it's hard not to worry !! This was one area my little boy was quick in so can't help with this one .... other than to say my friends little girl started walking at 15 months and again she is absolutely fine .

Pointing and general understanding is a really really good sign !!! The rest will follow I'm sure :) 13 months is still so so young !!

So much to worry about though isn't there !! Xxx

Ezhildeepa · 11/05/2023 11:38

Hi dear.. How was he babbling or understanding? How he communicated with you

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