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Very unsettled 12 month old after one year vaccinations

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PumpkinMyPy · 04/04/2020 20:08

My one year old daughter is usually a great sleeper (settles herself easily, two naps in the day, sleeps 7-6.30/7 overnight) and is in a routine of three breastfeeds a day plus three meals and a snack. She’s normally a very happy baby - always smiling and laughing, hardly cries at all. However, she had her 12 month vaccinations on Tuesday and has been incredibly unsettled since then. She wants to breastfeed constantly, is really irritable and seems to have completely forgotten how to self-settle. Naps have gone completely out of the window and the only way she gets to sleep at night is by breastfeeding for at least two hours, then holding her until she crashes out on me from exhaustion. I feel like I have a newborn again 😬 I’ve tried putting her in her cot when she seems tired and I know she isn’t feeding from hunger but she won’t settle at all - she stands at the edge of her cot screaming and the cry sounds different to any sound I’ve heard her make before. It’s not a tired sort of grizzle, she sounds genuinely in distress. Obviously I get her out and cuddle her then she carries on feeding before eventually falling asleep on me. I then try to transfer her to her cot but she usually wakes up and starts screaming so it all begins again. I’m really not sure if she’s uncomfortable or in pain or just getting used to extra cuddles and feeds from me but she just seems to have lost all of her independence.

This is really unusual behaviour for her and I’m starting to get a bit worried. Did anyone else’s babies react like this to their one year vaccinations? Is this normal and we just need to ride it out or should I be concerned? Any advice or thoughts (or reassurance!) from anyone with any experience of similar would be really appreciated - thank you so much 😊

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Milligan123 · 04/04/2020 20:45

No your not alone! We are 12 days I think post jabs and its been a nightmare!!! Down to 1 nap a day of no more that 1 1/2hrs, bed time has been so stressful... The last 2 nights it was 9:30 before she gave in last night we had the biggest melt down she's ever had to the point I ended up crying aswell! She's absolutely fine during the day but as soon as bed time comes... WOW!! she's been a little off her food as well. Tonight however we didn't mess about and put her down straight down after her bottle at 6:30 and so far so good. I do think some of our issue is the clock change aswell but she's definitely been off since the injections. Hope she settles for you soon xx

PumpkinMyPy · 04/04/2020 22:18

So sorry to hear that your little one is suffering too but thank you for reassuring me that we are not alone with this! I’m actually finding it really distressing so I’m not surprised that you ended up crying too 😔 Mine’s been off her food too but I think because she has been feeding so much that it is filling her up. I think she’s comfort feeding so I don’t want to refuse her if she needs it. Just hoping that that this settles soon, I’m not sure where my happy baby has gone! Really hope it gets better for you soon and that tonight is a success🤞🏻 Wishing you loads of luck!

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