My 3.5 year old goes to nursery 3 half days a week. She is a very shy child and it takes her ages to get comfortable with new people (she has a physical disability so I am not sure if the shy/anxiousness is related). Today the nursery supervisor told me they are having trouble keeping her in the room during story/music time. She won't sit in the group and they think it's noise related. They have tried sitting her away from the group with a 1-1 but often she will just wander out the room and sing from afar. The problem is that the other kids had started to follow suit (wandering) so they can't allow her to to this now. They want me to think of a solution. I know she can be funny with noise sometimes but I think in this situation its the social aspect + noise because she is fine at soft play (that can get REALLY loud!) but a party at soft play for example she wouldn't join in because it's too noisy/shy. Has anyone been through this or any advice. Sorry for the long post!