1. screaming while playing 2. Screaming in a tantrum 3. DS crying at the drop of a hat and whining constantly. 4. Getting them all to sleep in their own beds all night? 5. Ds being the cheekiest little blighter I know, he answers me back, tells me he will sit me in time out etc etc..I am loosing my grip on dealing with him without shouting so need some tips. 6. Also need tips on generally maintaining my patience as I am soo tired I can feel myself getting worked up with them.