5 year old being cheeky/acting out and won't poo on toilet! Help!

[lyssie29]

Basically I'm a crap mum. My DD is 5 on Tuesday she is acting up all the time, answering back or just ignoring me. I've had loads of problems potty training her too and she refuses to poo without a nappy on and even though I feel like I've tried everything I can i feel like its all my fault. It's got me worried about what her future will be like. Any advice?

hi there no advice really I have a challenging 5 year old too. he runs ahead when out and recently got lost from my mum at busy mainline station at night I have more grey hairs! I self referred him to local psychology service and plan to write down all the concerns and go through them when I get an appointment.