I was staggered this afternoon to discover my 12 yr old dd has been looking at adult pornsites on the internet. I feel like a dreadful mother. How could this happen - I thought this computer was set up to not allow ANY sex, violence, bad language or nudity. I have two younger children too. The computer is not in dd's bedroom - it's in the family room and she is never here alone, well one afternoon a week when the cleaning lady is here. I suppose it's just her curiosity but I should not have let this happen - I haven't said anything to her - Iknow i must but I thought i'd let the panic subside, do I make a big thing of it or pretend it's nothing. I daren't tell dh... What can I do any ideas and please everybody make sure your computer is secure - my dd is only supposed to use the internet for homework research but maybe she typed in a word which came up with some dodgy sites.