... but here I am... dd is two and a half, she is lovely, smiling, self confident and exuberant. but since this summer she's been throwing massive tantrums and it's getting worse. It's not the tantrums I'm worried about, but I feel that it's something to do with me. She is very clingy and it's me she wants most of the times (when she wakes up, when she goes to bed, etc), and yet she challenges me. I'm more or less a sahm, but I've been working from home lately and I think she feels that I'm under pressure. I don't know, I even don't know what kind of answers I'm looking for, thing is that ds's (who is 4) behaviour has always been easier to understand, and tonight I feel sad, and instead of beign able to work, I've been thinking about today and the fact that I shouted at her twice, and I just don't want to collect mistakes. thanksss