Is this impossible? DD is 21 months and tantrums as toddlers her age do. I find it easy to cope with on an ordinary day either in the house or out at a baby group.
But, anytime we plan a nice family day, it is a disaster. Mothering Sunday, Father's Day, etc. Today we went to the Queen's baton for 3 hours or so. DD screamed for approx half that time. She has now been screaming for an hour through bath and bedtime. I don't expect it to stop - maybe another hour.
So, do people just not go out when they have a toddler? Or, just accept the day will involve hours and hours of screaming? Or, is this unusual?