worried about explosive behaviour of 14 month old-any advise please helpx

[NessaWH123]

Hi looking for some advise please. My 14 month old has always been a handful with a short fuse a little patience. He was improving last month but is still abit like Jekyll and Hyde- suddenly get cross for no apparent reason...as just wonder is this normal or could there be an underlying problem with his personality further down the line...probably just being paranoid but i do worry as he is so less tolerant then all other children i know the same age? He has in the last week started to get very cross behaving like the terrible twos....shouting and throwing things at the flip of a hat--is that normal at this age as i tought he was to young for this behaviour? I feel so emabarressed when out and about of other people seeing this and feel i cant control him. I try to ignore or distract this behavour but am unsure what else to do? Thanks.

Is there anything about the times when he does this which you could pinpoint as a reason? Is it always at the same time of day for instance? Is there anything in particular happening in the room at the time? Or perhaps you're in a certain place or getting ready?

It's "normal" to some extent yes but that doesn't mean you shouldn't listen to your instincts. Sometimes Mothers know things before anyone else for no better reason than they know their child very well indeed.