As in how do you try and encourage 3 yr old to share and stop the younger one from crying wolf every time brother comes towards him.
This afternoon has been a particular nightmare - they spent an hour fighting over a balloon which DS2 was playing with. I suggested DS1 play with a different ballon but he wanted the one DS2 was playing with and wrestled him for it. So DS1 got a time out. Then afterwards DS1 played really nicely and then decided to approach DS2 to play. DS2 went wild. Crying and tantruming. DS1 had not even done anything at this point. It seems to be the story of my life at the moment - they fight, time-out then more fighting. DS2 is starting to milk it for sympathy as well.
Please advise me - I am prepared to do anything for more harmonious siblings.
Today I feel overwhelmed by the responsibility of being a parent.