hi please dont judge me but i need some advise, im new on hear so please be patient. I have 2 children a 7 year old and an 8 month old and am currently 20 weeks pregnant . My 7yr old is out of control she will not do anything i tell her and is extremely angry and violent which has got to the point where i really do not know what to do. She smashes everything she has as well as everything she comes into contact with hits me spits at me and its destroying my family. i have been to the doctors with her on three separate occasions asking for help and im not getting anywhere, the last doctor i saw promised to help me but i just received a letter saying im on a waiting list and should hear from someone in 15 weeks! i cant even go anywhere with her as she tries to jump out of the car (child locks not workin) Im scared i will loose the baby im carrying with all the stress I dont have any family to help and just moved to a new area for a fresh start 3 months ago hoping this would help but it hasn't, has anyone every been in a similar situation? any advise would be greatly appropriated..