DD, DH & I need to set ground rules for the summer holidays - we are having a family meeting - we need help

[KatyMac]

We are having a meeting this afternoon

DH & I are likely to disagree on what is acceptable so we are having a pre-meeting (which I think goes against the family meeting ethos - but it saves rowing in front of DD)

Where on earth do we start - I am thinking behaviours/chores/sanctions??

But what does everyone else do?

(this is made worse by my working F/T from home & having clients visit frequently)

We have set up:
Sailing
Cycling
Walking
Shopping
Sightseeing

So we are feeling a bit better structured

She still has plenty of time to chill

& we have promised some 'spur of the moment' treats (if I get any cancellations )

But DH is sticking on the matter of the PGL holiday & DD would SO love it