That must have been sooo scary for you , winny !
Very glad no harm done. Think positive - hopefully, your DP will be much much careful in the future.
I always struggle to relax re my DH and hot drinks , is he always super careful where he places them with DS around ?
Men, most of them, are simply not as hardwired about child safety as we are. Of course, in their defence, they do not spend hours on mumsnet, reading all the parent panic threads,swallowed balloons etc, learning from others experiences, ...
I said most men , as my BIL is like a mother hen to his two boys, honestly, wouldn't let them play for five minutes unsupervised in the next room. And they are 5 and 8 !
Winny, I'm a western girl, so for us it is always Swinoujscie, Miedzyzdroje, Dziwnow etc
And I LOVE Kolobrzeg. My middle DS actually vows to move over there when adult.
We all love Polish seaside full stop. Well, when the sun shines, that is.
Yes, OP, please pardon the momentary hijack.