This is the second time I've created this thread...the last one mysteriously disappeard
I really like the name Matilda but my DS (and his family) have vetoed it for a complicated reason that I don't agree with... ANYHOW [deep breath emotion!]....we are looking at Elizabeth and Marilla as alternatives. So with 2nd names they would be
Elizabeth Joy
or
Marilla Elizabeth
(Elizabeth is after my Nana but I'm not sure it goes with my DD name)
My other DC's names are Leo and Eleanor
Any thoughts wise Mumsnet Jury....