Please or to access all these features

Baby names

Find baby name inspiration and advice on the Mumsnet Baby Names forum.

My husband and I can't decide on a middle name for our son: David Matthew or David Lawrence or David Alexander

17 replies

ForDearJadeCat · 06/10/2026 00:30

My husband and I have decided on a first name for our son, but we can't decide on a middle name. Which one do you think is better?

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
SnowFrogJelly · 06/10/2026 00:56

David Alexander 💙

LivingTheDreamish · 06/10/2026 02:14

David is a great choice! I voted for Lawrence.

OOO176 · 06/10/2026 02:18

What is the initial letter of your surname?

WearyAuldWumman · 06/10/2026 02:24

David Alexander - provided your surname doesn't begin with 'D'.

whiteroseredrose · 06/10/2026 05:37

David Alexander flows better. But it depends on your surname. I’d try to avoid initials like DAM or DAZ.

JustHavinABreak · 06/10/2026 06:03

I love David Matthew!

Yello24 · 06/10/2026 06:05

All fine. I’d pick any that have a family connection if that applies. Or the shortest one as middle names are pretty irrelevant really.
David is lovely.

Bunfighter · 06/10/2026 06:06

I have a David just turned 14, there are very few of them about! I'm not keen on Lawrence. I like the name Alexander but I think Matthew goes best. Are the names significant to you in some way?

shiningcuckoo · 06/10/2026 06:57

I’d choose a middle name with a family connection. I regret not doing that with my own children. My son is Fergus James, but I wish I’d gone for Fergus Robert after my Dad.

DemonsandMosquitoes · 06/10/2026 07:43

Alexander

AlwaysRightISwear · 06/10/2026 07:49

Alexander

Raiderofthelostbattenburg · 06/10/2026 07:50

Oh, I love the name David! I think these are all good options too, but overall I think I’m team David Alexander

HugoThatway · 06/10/2026 09:39

Depends on the surname.

David Matthew Jadecat
David Lawrence Jadecat
David Alexander Jadecat

David M Jadecat
David L Jadecat
David A Jadecat

D M Jadecat
D L Jadecat
D A Jadecat

DMJ
DLJ
DAJ

Potential for nicknames: Day-mat, DaLa, Dalek... (you never know Smile)

Firebird83 · 06/10/2026 21:15

David Lawrence

VioletMatilda · 07/10/2026 15:16

In order

David Matthew
David Alexander
David Lawrence

but you can't go wrong with any of them (unless David Alexander would create a bad set of initials).

SatinHeart · 07/10/2026 15:19

David Alexander

autumn1638 · 07/10/2026 17:48

I have a David. He is 7 and we call him Davey. I won’t tell you his second names because we would be recognised. It’s a good strong name.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread