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Hazel, Matilda or Felicity?

31 replies

whispycloud · 12/07/2025 15:18

Which do you prefer please! 🙂

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ouch321 · 12/07/2025 15:19

I think Hazel is v pretty.
Other two = meh

Plantladylover · 12/07/2025 15:20

Felicity. My DS would have been Felicity if a DD.

Hazel awful imo

Matilda very common atm

Comedycook · 12/07/2025 15:24

Felicity...nice and glamorous

Hazel is frumpy imo. Matilda is ok.

StrongandNorthern · 12/07/2025 15:25

Matilda.
Not Hazel.

chaiselozenges · 12/07/2025 15:31

Hazel is frumpy.
Matilda is overused, and there are so many Tillies.
Felicity is great.

BoleynMemories13 · 12/07/2025 15:33

Hazel is by far my favourite.

Matilda is ok but I don't like the nicknames. Felicity is fussy.

ExitPursuedByABare · 12/07/2025 15:33

Hazel

idontknowwhattodoOR · 12/07/2025 15:40

TBH I don't like any of them for different reasons. I'd go back to the drawing board.

Matilda is a dreadful name. it's old fashioned, ugly sounding and has now got associations with Matilda from the Roald Dahl story/musical/film and abusive parents. Every child in the world seems to be called Matilda as well - god knows why.

I associate with liars - from that Hilaire Belloc poem Matilda told such Dreadful Lies
https://www.poetrybyheart.org.uk/poems/matilda

Hazel = very frumpy, hippy dress made out of wheat, type of name. It's very undynamic and drippy. I suppose that depends on what you want for your child but a child called Hazel is never going to be a leader.

Felicity - probably the least bad of the three but old fashioned, fussy when you say it and icity is not a nice sound.

Poetry By Heart

https://www.poetrybyheart.org.uk/poems/matilda

MadKittenWoman · 12/07/2025 15:43

None, but Tilly if it has to be one of those.

PunkApple · 12/07/2025 15:48

Hazel is pretty, I know a little girl called Hazel though so my perception could be skewed.
Love Matilda.
Love Felicity even more.

LegoLandslide · 12/07/2025 15:50

Lovely list

There are a lot of Matildas around. I don't like "Matty" or "Tilly" - do you have an abbreviation you can live with?

Felicity is lovely but also seems to be rising in popularity.

I'd therefore go for Hazel

As we seem to have similar tastes in names I'd also suggest Rowan and Emily.

marshmallowfinder · 12/07/2025 16:00

Hazel is sweet and a beautiful name. Matilda is boring and Felicity is frumpy, annoying and reminds me of a 75 year old librarian.

boysmuminherts · 12/07/2025 16:02

They are all lovely names :) I have friends with all 3. So they are lovely middle aged women :)

Moreteaandchocolate · 12/07/2025 16:04

Hazel is gorgeous and she will be known as Hazel.

Matilda is quite nice as long as you like Tilly (I like Tilly for a child, not an adult)

Felicity is too long with no good short versions imo

vanilladreamer · 12/07/2025 19:11

Hazel reminds me of ponies, I'm sorry!
Matilda - Nice, very trendy though
Felicity - My mum nearly called me this and I am really happy she did not.

LucasBuck · 12/07/2025 19:28

Elegant, yet slightly quirky Felicity sounds the most classic to me and thus probably the least likely to date (which is important to me personally but may not be to you) - I think because it has very rarely been in the Top 100 historically so it’s difficult to guess a Felicity’s age. It also has a lovely meaning if that matters and some cute nn options if wanted.

Matilda would be my second choice simply as the Empress Matilda was such an impressive, strong namesake that the name itself just feels “strong” to me (and the eponymous Dahl book is pretty cool for young girls too). But it definitely ebbs and flows in fashion which I’m less keen on - there’s a lot of young Matilda’s about now but I only know one older one.

Hazel is similar in that it very much rises and falls with the trends - until recently it was mostly a much older persons name. But I guess since Ivy has come back with a vengeance, Hazel was bound to follow too and it does have a pretty sound.

Headfullofbees · 12/07/2025 20:29

I like them all!

Hazel is lovely and not likely to be shortened. Ive heard of Matildas going by Tilly or Tilda, which is quirky. Felicity has a great meaning and history, shortens well to Flick or Fliss. I voted Felicity but can see why you wanted help shortening the list.

EmeraldDreams73 · 12/07/2025 20:31

I like Hazel, like Matilda/Tilly, though it's used a lot atm. Not very keen on Felicity as a name, but recently started teaching a Felicity who is an absolute dream, so that's helped sway me!

I'd go for Hazel of the three, but it's not terribly exciting.

maybein2022 · 12/07/2025 23:04

Not a fan of Hazel at all. Matilda and Felicity both great names- if I was choosing right now I’d go with Felicity I think.

Firsttimebabymummy · 12/07/2025 23:06

Felicity is gorgeous.
I really like Hazel but it a marmite name!
I'm not keen on Matlilda.

TidyAmberPoster · 15/07/2025 12:08

Hazel my favourite and so surprised to see people say it’s “awful”

Charlotte120221 · 15/07/2025 12:43

Not super keen on any of them.

But if you choose Matilda, be aware she'll get Tilda/Tilly/Matty

And Felicity is often Fliss or Flick

So you have to like those as that's what she'll probably end up being known as....

livingonaprairie · 15/07/2025 13:06

I have a niece called Felicity, shortened to Fizzy (she's 9). So that gets my vote

ahhwotsits · 15/07/2025 13:08

My name is Hazel- I’m not frumpy and I am a leader type, definitely not a pony haha. Hazel gets my vote! X

FancyCatSlave · 15/07/2025 13:11

I have a Felicity so am biased, I’d pick that again. She is insistent on no nickname so
it’s never shortened.