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Thoughts on the baby name Tilda?

79 replies

LouiseDeyes · 09/07/2025 18:49

Hi all,

I’m expecting and have been going round and round with names, but I keep coming back to Tilda. It’s the shortened version of a nickname my grandfather gave me throughout my life, it’s always had such a warm, personal meaning for me. I feel really connected to it in a way no other name has matched.

I guess I’m just wondering how people perceive the name? Do you see it as too old-fashioned, incomplete, or quirky? I want to go with what feels right, but I’d love to hear how others might react to it, especially in real life settings.

Thanks in advance ❤️

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Teacupover5 · 09/07/2025 21:46

My late MIL was Matilda aka Mattie -what a woman ❤️xx

tartyflette · 09/07/2025 21:51

Biscuitburglar · 09/07/2025 21:46

Definitely rice. 99% of people who come across her will nod politely when introduced but silently be wondering why the hell her parents named her after rice. If you have a boy later you could call him Vesta! Sorry.

Vesta is a girl's name! Used in one of the James Bond books, afaicr.
See slso Vesta Tilley, music hall star of the late 19th/early 20th century.

TheChosenTwo · 09/07/2025 21:53

Very ricey to me but I’ve never heard of tilda Swinton until this thread or any other Tilda’s!

HugoYorway · 09/07/2025 22:13

There's Tilda and Vesta's sister Laila too, and their cousin Jasmine.

Moreteaandchocolate · 09/07/2025 22:21

I really like it as short for Matilda, but it could work as a standalone name too (if you don’t mind people asking if it’s short for Matilda a lot!)

JillyGiraffe · 10/07/2025 21:13

Rice!

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 10/07/2025 21:18

It's a nickname for Matilda. Or a brand of rice. I don't think it's an issue...

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 12/07/2025 02:24

It’s a popular shortform for Matilda.. it’s nice enough, but yes I would use Matilda as a full name

MoreChocPls · 12/07/2025 05:38

Rice!

PreciousMomentsHun · 12/07/2025 05:46

Matilda is such a fine old name, a queenly name. Do give her the full version on her birth cert so she can chose that if she wants.

Plus there's a brilliant old Harry Belafonte song called Matilda. Kids love having their own song!

newhouseplans · 12/07/2025 05:58

It's a lovely name, go for it. Ot doesn't have to be a nickname for Matilda.

Although, if her full name is Tilda, possible it may get shortened to Tilly, are you ok with that?

mismomary · 12/07/2025 06:08

I know a young Tilda. Lovely name. I assure you no one in her class will think rice! I'd go Mathilda and shorten it.

PreciousMomentsHun · 12/07/2025 15:07

Matilda is also a fantastic kid's book and film (we will forget about the musical).

It is a cooool name.

No h needed in English though.

Cynic17 · 12/07/2025 15:09

Well, it's not a proper name. Just pick Matilda, which is classic and lovely.

Arcticlife · 12/07/2025 15:14

Love it, quite a normal name in Norway, spelled Tilde (Til-deh)

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 12/07/2025 15:21

Rice. Sure have it Asa Nick name for Matilda but not stand alone.

Toddlerteaplease · 12/07/2025 15:25

Heard of a character on a book called Tlidy, thought that was nice.

HugoYorway · 12/07/2025 17:41

I assure you no one in her class will think rice!

I was just going to ask if anyone had said this and @mismomary has obliged.
I can only assume that @mismomary doesn't know anyone who cooks rice at home or takes children to the supermarket.

Marmite27 · 12/07/2025 21:57

Arcticlife · 12/07/2025 15:14

Love it, quite a normal name in Norway, spelled Tilde (Til-deh)

Spelled Tilda and also pronounced like that in Yorkshire Wink

TildasMother · 12/07/2025 23:52

I have an adult Matilda, known as Tilda 90+% of the time. People may think rice when reading the name, but I honestly think when you're faced with an actual person, you just connect the name to the person and that's that. I think she's had maybe a handful of comments, certainly nothing that would have made me question our naming choice for one second.

If you like Tilda, use it.

MNpenisadvisor · 12/07/2025 23:53

Rice brand

beans and rice GIF by It's Suppertime
LookingAtMyBhunas · 15/07/2025 23:57

Is it me or is 'Rice' starting to sound really good?

season 8 friends GIF
Bramble25 · 16/07/2025 19:27

I must admit i do think rice but I do also think it’s a beautiful name. And I’d soon stop thinking of the rice if I knew a human with the name!

KobeghGreen · 16/07/2025 19:32

PreciousMomentsHun · 12/07/2025 05:46

Matilda is such a fine old name, a queenly name. Do give her the full version on her birth cert so she can chose that if she wants.

Plus there's a brilliant old Harry Belafonte song called Matilda. Kids love having their own song!

Edited

My granddaughter Matilda loves that song 😊

PreciousMomentsHun · 16/07/2025 19:43

KobeghGreen · 16/07/2025 19:32

My granddaughter Matilda loves that song 😊

It's a belter.

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