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Hate DD’s planned baby name. Is it ever ok to say that?

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Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:53

I expect the answer is to keep quiet but I fear by future grandchild will be teased mercilessly.

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DataColour · 12/06/2025 09:40

You could suggest Ianthe, if she wants a name starting with I and is Greek in origin.

SapporoBaby · 12/06/2025 09:41

Cherrysoup · 12/06/2025 08:47

I taught a child called Ayo, her friend quoted the advert at me to ensure I pronounced it correctly-Ay-oh, let's go! I don't think you can say much bar maybe remind them it's the woman raped by Zeus, not sure why they'd choose that! Bit controversial.

Zeus raped everyone that moved in mythological Greece so it’s not really that dramatic a part of the plot.

SerendipityJane · 12/06/2025 09:42

DataColour · 12/06/2025 09:40

You could suggest Ianthe, if she wants a name starting with I and is Greek in origin.

Made me think of "Iolanthe"

Have G&S been cancelled yet ?

ZoyaTheDestroyer · 12/06/2025 09:43

MolkosTeenageAngst · 11/06/2025 22:40

As a rape survivor I think it’s awful that OP and many others on here think being given the same name as a rape victim would be awful and shameful and is ignoring the fact Io was also a princess and priestess. If a woman is raped is all she’s reduced to a rape victim? Is that all I am?

The villain in the story is Zeus, not Io. If your grandchild was going to be named Zeus after a rapist by all means complain, but how misogynistic to tarnish the rape victim and reduce her to nothing but her sexual assault. Plus sexual violence against women is unfortunately so common, and has been even more common at various points of history, that almost all female names will be the names of rape victims. Even in mythology there are many rape victims (male and female): https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Listofrapevictimsfromancienthistoryandmythology

Would you be against the name Cassandra? Lara? Susanna? Eve? Adam? Arthur?

Edited

Well said Flowers.

RavenclawWitchy · 12/06/2025 09:44

I would struggle naming my child after a woman who was turned into a "horned heifer" by a man to "protect" her...

DataColour · 12/06/2025 09:44

@SerendipityJane sorry what's G&S?

Srubag · 12/06/2025 09:44

It’s pretty. I really like it

marmaladegranny · 12/06/2025 09:45

I feel for you OP! Personally I love your DD’s choice, but you cannot say anything! If it helps I dislike both my grandchildren’s names but I’ve accepted them, love the children very much and have NEVER told their parents my opinion of the names they chose.

TerrysCIockworkOrange · 12/06/2025 09:45

i o let’s go
ee i ee i o
i o i o it’s off to work we go

yeah, I’d be keen for them to change it too, but not sure how you can really. Poor kid 😂

Orphlids · 12/06/2025 09:50

I met a little girl named Io a couple of weeks ago. I loved the name, and chatted with her mum about it. Mum was intelligent, friendly and articulate. The little girl was gorgeous and confident. I see no reason any child would be teased over such a name. Children are teased if they are vulnerable to teasing, not simply because of an unusual name. Don’t say anything. It’s a great name, just not to your taste.

HiddenInCubeOfCheese · 12/06/2025 09:51

Agapornis · 12/06/2025 09:38

Agree. I share the name of an ancient rape victim and no one has ever mentioned it. She stood up to the rapist and got revenge. Lots of paintings including by Artemisia Gentileschi and Rubens. I'm very proud of my namesake.

Judith slaying Holofernes is a bomb ass story! Great heroine.

SerendipityJane · 12/06/2025 09:55

DataColour · 12/06/2025 09:44

@SerendipityJane sorry what's G&S?

Gilbert and Sullivan.

Gloriously British, and rollicking good fun.

(Hums the Major Generals Song.....)

Major-General's Song - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Major-General%27s_Song

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 12/06/2025 09:56

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 22:43

They have chosen it for the Greek myth not after Jupiter’s moons. DD is a classicist and intends to call any other kids after Greek mythological characters. If this has been a boy he would have been Eryx.

I suppose Eryx is better than Pollux.

Mothership4two · 12/06/2025 10:01

@oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends

I suppose Eryx is better than Pollux.

Oh God, imagine that boy's childhood!

Moveoverdarlin · 12/06/2025 10:03

Topsyturvy78 · 12/06/2025 01:39

It's Lo just Lo as in how low can you go.😀😀😀

It’s not. It’s not an L then an O. It’s an I then an O.

So pronounced Eye-Oh.

Can you imagine the poor kid dealing with this in school? Or on the phone? ‘So Capital eye, then an Oh. Yeah just two letters. Eye oh.

Tiswa · 12/06/2025 10:05

RavenclawWitchy · 12/06/2025 09:44

I would struggle naming my child after a woman who was turned into a "horned heifer" by a man to "protect" her...

And the other parts when she became human and strong

how a man treats a woman doesn’t define her
and it certainly shouldn’t define a name

AngelinaFibres · 12/06/2025 10:08

Pretty name.
Vanishingly small chance she'll marry a man called Money.

user2848502016 · 12/06/2025 10:10

I don’t think it’s that bad tbh. She will probably have people asking how it’s pronounced all her life but apart from that it’s not an awful name

Coolcalmmoments · 12/06/2025 10:11

Applesonthelawn · 12/06/2025 08:53

I think names just get normalised and she won't be teased at all. Years ago my DS had three friends called Titus. They were never teased, which was inexplicable to me.

Is this another wind-up. You have to love this thread 😂

Piccante · 12/06/2025 10:11

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 22:43

They have chosen it for the Greek myth not after Jupiter’s moons. DD is a classicist and intends to call any other kids after Greek mythological characters. If this has been a boy he would have been Eryx.

I absolutely love both of those names!

user2848502016 · 12/06/2025 10:11

I actually like Eryx too - shame they aren’t having a boy really!

Coolcalmmoments · 12/06/2025 10:12

AngelinaFibres · 12/06/2025 10:08

Pretty name.
Vanishingly small chance she'll marry a man called Money.

😂😂😂

Piccante · 12/06/2025 10:12

Coolcalmmoments · 12/06/2025 10:11

Is this another wind-up. You have to love this thread 😂

To be fair, my oldest went to school with a set of twins called Nathan and Nathaniel, so anything's possible😀

AngelinaFibres · 12/06/2025 10:12

user2848502016 · 12/06/2025 10:11

I actually like Eryx too - shame they aren’t having a boy really!

Or twin boys.

Coolcalmmoments · 12/06/2025 10:13

My work can wait 😂