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Which would you choose...

38 replies

Floam6 · 06/10/2024 09:41

Between the following if a girl:

Clara
Eliza
Olivia
Phoebe
Grace

Also, if a boy, is Henry a bad choice to use if there is a cousin called Harry?

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Bzgh23 · 06/10/2024 17:53

Eliza

Yerdawasasausagemaker · 06/10/2024 18:09

Phoebe however they’re all lovely names really.

BootballJoy · 06/10/2024 20:39

Phoebe

confusedlots · 06/10/2024 20:46

Love Clara. It was on my list, along with Celia. Ended up going with Emily, which I know is a lot more popular, but it had always been a favourite of mine.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 06/10/2024 22:22

The Henry thing would depend - do you mean Harry is yours or your partners cousin? Then since it’s a likely a different generation to your baby, it’s really no big deal imo. But if you mean Harry is your baby’s cousin - and especially if your baby only has a few cousins - then I personally probably wouldn’t as they really are basically the same name (even if not many younger Henry’s do choose to go by Harry these days).

Of your girls choices, I really like elegant, Shakespearean Olivia, despite its popularity. Clara is also quite pretty, in a vintage Victoriana sort of way. I find Eliza a bit harsh sounding, Phoebe sounds slightly cutesy and Grace a bit too dull imo.

CalliopePlantain · 07/10/2024 10:28

Clara, if pronounced Clare-ah rather than clah-rah.

Eliza if not.

BoleynMemories13 · 07/10/2024 19:43

Eliza is my favourite but all are nice.

Personally I wouldn't use Henry if there's already a cousin called Harry but clearly I'm in a minority here so I guess you could get away with it.

Bigearringsbigsmile · 07/10/2024 20:27

CalliopePlantain · 07/10/2024 10:28

Clara, if pronounced Clare-ah rather than clah-rah.

Eliza if not.

So pronounced incorrectly??

DuchessOfSausage · 07/10/2024 20:36

@CalliopePlantain , the Clair-a pronunciation was standard in England until fairly recently.

sadeightiesthrowback · 07/10/2024 20:43

My favorite names on your list for a girl are are Olivia and Eliza.
Olivia has a lovely sound to it I would choose Olivia.

I don't see why your son can't be called Henry when he has a cousin named Harry, even though Harry is the nickname I guess you'd call it, of Henry.
They are two separate names unless your son wants to be called Harry instead of Henry.

CalliopePlantain · 07/10/2024 20:51

Bigearringsbigsmile · 07/10/2024 20:27

So pronounced incorrectly??

No, it is an actual pronunciation. The Clah-rah version is the more continental pronunciation that has become more popular

HappyDane · 07/10/2024 20:53

1.Grace
2.Olivia

Henry is fine.

KayEmAy · 07/10/2024 20:55

Brothers would be too close but cousins is totally fine. Henry is adorable.

On your girl list I think Grace is underrated as a first name! A very close runner up would be Phoebe.

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