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Callista, Liliana, Marina or Mara...

55 replies

CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 18:25

I don't even know the sex of my baby yet, but seem to think I'm having a girl. 🙊 (Surname begins with M)

What do you think of these names? Fire away, I am prepared! <girls loins>

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CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 18:25

Hahahaa, I meant GIRDS loins!!!

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Fivebeanchilli · 08/11/2022 18:31

Callista is lovely. I like Callie as a nn.
Liliana is ok. I think it's a bit fussy and prefer Lilian.
Marina is super popular on here but I really dislike it. It's a place to park boats and reminds me of a mirena coil.
Mara is ok. I prefer Cara and Clara.
Callista for me with Mara second.

CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 18:34

Thanks! An added complication with Marina is that my parents had a baby who died before I was born, named Marina. I'd hate to upset them, so thinking of using as a middle name perhaps. It would be nice to remember her

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Homewardbound2022 · 08/11/2022 18:35

Callista is lovely. But Callie is horrible.
Marina I like because I know a delightful one!

CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 18:38

Aww, I like Callie 😄

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Theconceptoftime · 08/11/2022 18:38

I like Lilliana but I also like Lillian.

In one way I really like Callista and the nn Callie but in another way Callista doesn't sound so nice. I think it's the harsh pronunciation in the middle. I have mixed feelings about it!

Not a fan of the others.

LulooLemon · 08/11/2022 18:40

Callista - v nice

Liliana - ok, bit I prefer Lily

Marina - lovely, but sadly there is the Mirena coil connection to think of

Mara - no! A mara is a rodent.

OnABreeze · 08/11/2022 18:46

Mara is the only nice one.

Linnet · 08/11/2022 18:47

Calista, but i'd spell it with one L. Cali is a nice nickname too, or Cal.

Dreikanter · 08/11/2022 18:47

Marina as a middle name would be a lovely way to remember your sister. Not sure that Mara would then work as a first name because of all the M initials.

If you like Callista (Callie) then go for it (I like it).

Dreikanter · 08/11/2022 18:51

Or you could use Callisto, who was a mythical nymph.

SallyWD · 08/11/2022 18:57

I like Marina and Mara

SummaLuvin · 08/11/2022 18:57

I love Marina, but all others I'm not fussed on at all.

Homewardbound2022 · 08/11/2022 19:00

CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 18:38

Aww, I like Callie 😄

Sorry @CatLoaf
😔

toastofthetown · 08/11/2022 19:31

Callista - Callista is quite nice, and Callie is cute as a nickname
Liliana - I find it a bit too fussy, and the inevitable nickname is Lily which is crashingly dull
Marina - normally I'd give this a whole hearted yes, but as it's the name of your sister who sadly died as a baby, I'd avoid it as first name. It feels a lot to live up and could be upsetting for your parents, even if they think they'll be ok with it.
Mara - simple and quite pretty. I prefer Lara or Clara (which would also work with Marina in the middle, which I don't think Mara would especially with an M surname).

CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 20:01

Yes, I don't think I should use Marina as a first name - I think I've settled on it as a middle name. (Will check with my Mum, as I don't want to upset her - but I think she'll appreciate the tribute.)

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CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 20:02

I'm into fussy names btw 😌😄

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Fleur405 · 08/11/2022 20:07

Callista gets my vote. I also prefer Lillian to Lilliana.

I’ve never personally been a fan of Marina (it’s where you park your boat…) but leaving that aside, and speaking from a sad experience, I don’t think you can use that as a first name (or maybe even as a middle name to be honest) without speaking to your parents first.

minipie · 08/11/2022 20:09

Callista is my favourite I think. You could have Liss/Lissy as nn.

How about

Melissa
Marissa
Mariella
Lilia
Larissa
Cara
Clarissa
Mina
Marnie

Obviously the M names don’t really work with Marina as a middle name - especially if your surname also begins with M.

CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 20:59

Mina was my amazingly zany great aunt, who frequently liked to trot about her house naked - honouring her with a middle name would be fab in a very different way...

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Thisisnotmyname2 · 08/11/2022 22:38

Liliana gets my vote. Not keen on callista but like callie as a nickname.

CatLoaf · 09/11/2022 09:28

Lilia is nice too... Everyone seems to hate my other favourite, Lilias :( (Scottish form of Lilian)

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pamshortsbrokenbothherlegs · 09/11/2022 09:54

I like Mara best because it's the least frilly. Hate Lilliana for the same reason.

Callista I quite like, prefer Callisto.

jonesy1999 · 09/11/2022 10:18

Love Lilian but very much dislike Liliana.

That one extra "a" just turns it into such an unnecessarily frilly name that is a total mouthful.

But Lilian is fab.

jonesy1999 · 09/11/2022 10:21

CatLoaf · 08/11/2022 20:59

Mina was my amazingly zany great aunt, who frequently liked to trot about her house naked - honouring her with a middle name would be fab in a very different way...

Oh she sounds fab!

Also, Marina is a great name and very international. You would need to speak to your parents but if they are ok with it I think it's a lovely idea.