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Robyn789 · 24/12/2021 02:06

What’s everyone thoughts on Marlow or Monty for our boy born 4 days ago? We’ve had awful trouble deciding on a name and it’s taken us this long to find a common ground on two.
His older sister is called mabelle. It wasn’t intentional to have them both with an M name it seems M names are what we like 🙈

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Scirocco · 24/12/2021 16:35

Montgomery with Monty for short would be lovely.

WhoppingBigBackside · 24/12/2021 16:48

Did I go wrong naming my DC Fido, Samuel Whiskers and Flopsy???

BiscuitLover3678 · 24/12/2021 16:54

Marlow

itssquidstella · 24/12/2021 17:00

I’ve taught a lovely male Marlow and a lovely Monty (short for Montagu, which is better). I think both are nice!

frogswimming · 24/12/2021 17:25

I think Marlow sounds like a girls name (even though maybe it isn't without the e at the end).

I like Montgomery with Monty as a nickname but not Monty on its own.

Robyn789 · 24/12/2021 19:23

Thank you all for your comments! Still undecided 🙈

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IamnotwhouthinkIam · 24/12/2021 19:40

Of the 2, I'd pick Monty - I might assume it was short for Montague or Montgomery but it's fine alone too imo. I see it as a perhaps slightly upper class sounding men's name (Monty Don etc) rather than a dogs name?

Marlow is the opposite in that it sounds a bit trendy/downmarket to me and also very unisex if that matters as well (it may get frequently misspelt as the "girls" Marlowe).

PizzasPlease · 24/12/2021 19:41

Marlow sounds like a girl's name.
Monty makes me think of a mole.

Rrrob · 24/12/2021 19:46

I think of Marlowe as a girl name, so Monty.

Juanbablo · 24/12/2021 19:46

I love Marlow. Monty says "dog's name" to me.

SummerLew · 24/12/2021 19:50

Marlowe seems very celeb-y to me. Much prefer Monty - Montgomery/Montague or just Monty (although I do think uncle!).

FartnissEverbeans · 24/12/2021 20:24

Not Montgomery! Dear God no

Monty is nice enough but it’s a bit twee I feel?

Marlow is quite cool so I’d choose that

Cindie943811A · 26/12/2021 13:01

Monty rather grows upon one so I’ll vote for that

HacerSonarSusPasos · 26/12/2021 13:06

Neither, sorry!

helpmum2003 · 26/12/2021 13:06

Monty with Montgomery on BC as it gives options as an adult.

DeclareThePenniesOnYourEyes · 26/12/2021 13:21

Marlow makes me think of Christopher Marlowe, who may have written Shakespeare’s works, may have been a spy and definitely died after a fellow drunken patron in a pub in Deptford stabbed him in the eye.

As for Monty, I have two main associations, neither of which I would want associated with my child. Please see illustrations.

If you like M names, what about Matthew, Milo, Max, Matteo?

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WhatsWrongWithMyUsername · 26/12/2021 22:37

Have you got any closer to deciding OP?

I like them both, so I’m no help.

maryzx · 26/12/2021 22:41

Of those two, Monty.

Noni123 · 26/12/2021 22:47

Monty is really nice -have you considered Maxim- definitely one of my favourite boys name

Robyn789 · 26/12/2021 23:11

@WhatsWrongWithMyUsername

Have you got any closer to deciding OP?

I like them both, so I’m no help.

No unfortunately not. We seem to be going round in circles with his name. Think it’s between Monty and Reggie now. It’s really me holding us back. I’m just not sold on any boy names 😩 Monty and Reggie are my partners favourite names closely followed by marlow! I think I’ve looked on every baby name list and I just can’t find one I love for him.
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WhatsWrongWithMyUsername · 27/12/2021 00:15

I much prefer Monty to Reggie, I think Reggie would date more quickly.

If you don’t love either enough, maybe start again with the baby names book, now your baby is here?

BrunoJenkins · 27/12/2021 00:41

I prefer Monty. I like with Marlow you'd get people mishearing it as Arlo or Harlow (or Merlot Grin)

AyeEee123 · 27/12/2021 00:43

Monty is fab, Reggie is awful.

BrunoJenkins · 27/12/2021 00:43

*think

Also Milo is similar too

TrashyPanda · 27/12/2021 00:46

If it’s between Monty and Reggie, then Monty every time.

Reggie always make me think of the horrible Kray twins.