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Vivian or Vivienne?

59 replies

closeyourpies · 07/08/2021 10:52

I think this is the name we've settled on now.

However, I think I prefer the Vivian spelling.

Vivienne reminds me too much of names like Genevieve. I just don't like it because it looks too French

So is Vivian okay or should it really be Vivienne, and she will spend a lifetime correcting the spelling?

I suppose if she is a Vivian it might be shorted to Ian whereas you can't do that to Vivienne

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Enko · 07/08/2021 11:08

Vivian is lovely the one I know is know as vivi never heard Ian as a nm for Vivian

Thymeout · 07/08/2021 12:57

Vivian is the masculine spelling of Vivienne, like Leslie and Lesley.

HermioneGrunger · 07/08/2021 13:02

@Thymeout

Vivian is the masculine spelling of Vivienne, like Leslie and Lesley.
Exactly, it really does depend on these of your baby.
HermioneGrunger · 07/08/2021 13:02

The sex not these.

Verveine · 07/08/2021 13:07

Vivien, as in the actress Vivien Leigh.
Love it!

WhatHappenedToTheLego · 07/08/2021 13:08

I think Vivian is ok for a girl. It's less mainstream than Leslie/Lesley or Francis/Frances etc.

Or you could compromise on Vivien?

EastWestWhosBest · 07/08/2021 13:08

See to me it can only be Vyvyan from The Young Ones.

moofolk · 07/08/2021 13:08

Vivienne

If she has to clarify its spelling it's 'two of everything'.

Lots of us have to clarify spelling, many common names have standard but varied spellings.

But as PP have said, this is the spelling of the name. I always think that if you have an unusual name you should definitely spell it properly.

Also Viv Albertine is a Vivienne

GlencoraP · 07/08/2021 13:12

As a PP said Vivian is a masculine name. Vivienne is the female generally, I know a little girl Vivienne known as Vivi ,very sweet

Crockof · 07/08/2021 13:21

I'd also assume Vivian was a boy. Vivienne is beautiful

AliceMcK · 07/08/2021 13:24

Vivian just reminds me of the Young Ones, I also thought it was a boys name.

Vivienne is very pretty.

Bumblecattabbybee · 07/08/2021 13:35

Much prefer Vivienne

Sarcobaleno · 07/08/2021 13:43

I prefer Vivienne or Vivien. Ian is a short name is Hmm

Odisia · 07/08/2021 13:45

The only Vivian I've known was male. Normally it would be Vivienne or Vivien for a female.

MrsFin · 07/08/2021 13:47

Vivi sounds like a euphemism for "lady parts" (also a euphemism).

Iwantcauliflowercheese · 07/08/2021 13:47

Agree with PPs. Vivian is a male name. I don't see a problem with Vivienne. It's obviously feminine.

ShortBacknSides · 07/08/2021 14:09

“Vivian “ is the male spelling; “Vivienne” the female.

SwedishEdith · 07/08/2021 14:17

I just don't like it because it looks too French ???

Vivienne looks much nicer than Vivian.

Lemonsyellow · 07/08/2021 14:21

It’s Vivien in the U.K. Vivienne is the French spelling with a different pronunciation.

SydneyCarton · 07/08/2021 14:29

I have a Vivian, never thought to call her Ian Confused. I think it’s so unusual to have it as a male name these days that the spelling doesn’t really matter, we just preferred the way it looked.

Plumtree391 · 07/08/2021 14:37

I thought the correct spelling was, 'Vivien".

Violetlavenders · 07/08/2021 14:41

There's also Viviana.

closeyourpies · 07/08/2021 14:47

@Violetlavenders

There's also Viviana.
Then you run the risk of Anna as a nickname

How about Vivien?

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SeanMean · 07/08/2021 15:22

Much prefer Vivienne.

woodfort · 07/08/2021 16:06

I’m not sure why anyone would shorten it to Ian Confused That’s as random as worrying that Thomas would be shortened to Ass or David to Id … Confused

I admit, Vivian looks masculine to me too. Vivienne is beautiful.