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Vivian boy/girl?

38 replies

Leeloo1233 · 01/06/2021 07:05

I love the name Vivian for a girl. It is strictly a girl's name in Scandinavia, but a boy's name in France.

How about in the UK? Is it more like a uni-sex name like Darcy or definitely a boy's name? What would you think if you'd meet a girl Vivian? The spelling Vivienne is not an option for us due to pronounciation.

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SoMuchForSummerLove · 01/06/2021 07:09

I guess it's unisex but it'd be really very rare to meet a male Vivian these days. I've only ever known female Vivians.

Poorlykitten · 01/06/2021 07:09

Unisex name here but reminds me massively of Vivian from the Young Ones. ( But I am old! 😂).

Aurorie11 · 01/06/2021 07:10

Vivian - boy
Vivien or Vivienne - girl

Cowbells · 01/06/2021 07:11

It's unisex but way way more popular for girls. The only male Vivian I can think of is the punk in The Young Ones. I'd never use it for a boy but it's up there in the top ten for girls. Love it.

WeAreTheHeroes · 01/06/2021 07:12

In the UK traditionally Vivian = boy's name, Vivien or Vivienne = girl's name. Like Leslie and Lesley.

DisgruntledPelican · 01/06/2021 07:15

Yep, unisex name but forever connected with Vyvyan from The Young Ones for me if used for a boy! Shame really as for boys I like similar unisex-but-strongly-female names like Lindsay, Hilary, Tracy. Due a revival for this generation soon.

Vivian/Vivienne is lovely for a girl.

BertieBotts · 01/06/2021 07:15

It makes me think of The Young ones As well. If that's an association you don't want I would probably think about it. I'm 32 and too young to have seen it on TV originally but am aware of it in culture etc. Anyone younger probably wouldn't be.

daisypond · 01/06/2021 07:15

Vivien for a girl. Vivian for a boy. The Young Ones character is Vyvyan.

Leeloo1233 · 01/06/2021 07:19

That's interesting that the spelling Vivien is a girl in the UK as in France both Vivian/Vivien are masculine and Viviane is the feminine Confused

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overnightangel · 01/06/2021 07:24

Only male Vivian I can think of is Vivian Campbell from Def Leppard (*misses point of thread & disappears to put them on loud and blow hangover cobwebs away)

Vivian boy/girl?
Leeloo1233 · 01/06/2021 07:26

@overnightangel

Only male Vivian I can think of is Vivian Campbell from Def Leppard (*misses point of thread & disappears to put them on loud and blow hangover cobwebs away)
This made me lol!
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Poorlykitten · 01/06/2021 07:26

If you google it, it says ‘Vivian is primarily a female name’ If that helps.

Trinacham · 01/06/2021 07:29

Vivian - Only girl in the UK
Darcy - Only girl in the UK

Posieandpip · 01/06/2021 08:18

Very much a girl's name these days!

KirstenBlest · 01/06/2021 09:57

Old man's name.

Vivien or Vivienne will be Viv.

Amdone123 · 01/06/2021 10:20

It's mainly used for girls I think. Though my first thought was Viv Richards, the cricketer.

bridgetreilly · 01/06/2021 11:59

Viviane would be better for a girl if you can't use Vivienne.

I would assume Vivian was a boy.

Lemur12 · 01/06/2021 12:04

I only know one Vivian - a man, who must be in his 50s by now. So, I'd assume a man, but it's not that common, so I wouldn't be shocked by a girl being called Vivian. Vivienne would definitely be a girl.

Potcallingkettle · 01/06/2021 12:04

What about Viviana?

RuthW · 01/06/2021 12:15

I know it's unisex but definitely female to me.

TatianaBis · 01/06/2021 12:24

I like the name Viva (pronounced Veeva).

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 01/06/2021 13:42

In the UK, technically it's supposed to be Vivien for a girl (like actress Vivien Leigh , who interestingly was born Vivian and changed the spelling).

However you will only occasionally meet male Vivian's here now (and certainly no young ones Smile). Like Evelyn, Vivien/Vivian has gone pretty much entirely to the girls side. I think it's a lovely name - retro/vintage but fits in with the popular V heavy names (Ava, Evelyn, Evie etc).

partyatthepalace · 01/06/2021 19:37

It’s technically unisex but I think it’s very rare for a boy now

Vivien or Vivienne is the usual female spelling in the UK these days. It seems to be starting to lift in popularity.

Poorlykitten · 02/06/2021 09:11

Vivianna is a terrible name. 😂

KirstenBlest · 02/06/2021 09:48

@Poorlykitten, I agree, and so is Viviana.

The -ana names are mostly IMO ugly. All I hear is the first but then the AHNuh, which isn't a nice sound.

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