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31 replies

wid07 · 07/11/2020 14:57

Could you give me your thoughts on these.... thanks Daffodil

Polly
Nevina
Winter
Helena
Merryn
Perla
Heidi
Octavia

Dominic
Xavier
Finley
Edward
Fletcher
Philip
James

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Fivemoreminutes1 · 07/11/2020 15:00

Helena, Heidi and Merryn would be my choices from your girls list.
Dominic and Finley from the boys.

Bunnybigears · 07/11/2020 15:01

Heidi and Fletcher

Kanaloa · 07/11/2020 15:01

I absolutely love Perla & Helena, I find them pretty but not too frilly. Edward & Finley are my favourites from the boys.

KurriKawari · 07/11/2020 15:02

None of the girls names and not the first two boys names.

MoiJeJous · 07/11/2020 15:07

Helena and James are both classic, lovely names.

meltonmypancake · 07/11/2020 15:08

Hmm although Winter is very very pretty (twinkling, sparkles, snow, gnarled bare tree branches) it's also very very cold which makes it cool but I'm still not sure. I think my faves are Nevina, Helena Merryn and Heidi then basically all of the boys names.

serialreturner · 07/11/2020 15:12

Helena
Heidi
James
Edward nn Freddie

SocialBees · 07/11/2020 15:15

I love Polly, Winter, Helena, Dominic, Edward and James.

Least favourites are Nevina and Fletcher.

FixItUpChappie · 07/11/2020 15:20

Of your girls names I like Merryn - thats lovely. Of your boys list Dominic is a fantastic name IMO

Bubbletrouble43 · 07/11/2020 15:23

Lots of nice names there, I especially like Merryn and Edward.

Chilldonaldchill · 07/11/2020 15:25

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Polly - I really like Polly. I dislike Molly and Holly but Polly feels fresher
Nevina - I've never heard this before but I really dislike it.
Winter - I like this
Helena - I like this
Merryn - I LOVE this
Perla - sounds like underwear. Pearl is much nicer
Heidi - I'm not a fan
Octavia - it's ok. A bit too flowery

Dominic - lovely
Xavier - lovely
Finley - nice but popular
Edward - nice
Fletcher - really dislike this
Philip - boring
James - dull

I would go for Merryn (or as a distant second Helena) or Xavier (or Dominic)

BuffaloCauliflower · 07/11/2020 15:30

Polly - love it, classic but underused
Nevina - don’t like it
Winter - ok but others better
Helena - pretty and classic
Merryn - don’t think I’ve heard it before? Alright I think
Perla - too much like the underwear
Heidi - lovely
Octavia - fab, was on our list, though is quite a lot of name to carry

Dominic - nice and not overused
Xavier - nice pronounced the proper French way if you’re French, but mostly pronounced wrong
Finley - fine but very popular
Edward - classic, there’s 1000 Ted’s around here though if you were considering that as a nickname
Fletcher - nope, not a fan of surnames as first names
Philip - classic but not used much, quite like it but wouldn’t choose it
James - nicest of the lot, I don’t think I know any James’ under 25

OhTheRoses · 07/11/2020 15:31

Nevina? Is it a name?

With the exception of Perla and Fletcher I like your other names.

Audreyseyebrows · 07/11/2020 15:33

Polly is my favourite from the girls names

I love James, Edward and Finley from the boys.

MikeUniformMike · 07/11/2020 15:33

Polly - like a lot
Nevina - scottish. Nevin-a or Nev-eena
Winter - no
Helena - yes but quite popular, prefer Helen
Merryn - not keen
Perla - underwear?
Heidi - 'Hi, like it
Octavia - Skoda

Polly or Heidi

Dominic - big bad Dom
Xavier - like it bu some say Ex-avier
Finley - too popular, a bit wet sounding
Edward - ok, no to Teddy or Ned as nn
Fletcher - no
Philip - fine
James - fine

James or Philip

HollyandIvyandallthingsYule · 07/11/2020 15:34

Polly
Helena
Octavia

Dominic
James
Finley

DelphiniumBlue · 07/11/2020 15:37

Perla = knickers.
Nevina= sounds like you are making up names to be original
Fletcher=a surname. I know this is a popular concept, but it's unnecessary and makes me wince.
Finley - isn't Finlay the spelling?
Merryn- quite sweet, but sounds made up. Is it? Apologies if I have that wrong.
Octavia- not keen on the sounds.
Heidi, Helena ( Hell-a-na or He -layn-a?) Polly- yes to any of them.
Dominic-yes
Xavier- only if it fits culturally, lots of opportunities for mispronunciation, but pretty cool for a teenager/adult
Philip - haven't come across a child called that for years, but not objectionable
James and Edward yes. But consider what nicknames ( if any) would be acceptable to you - eg I like Ted/Teddy but not Ed/Eddie.

MaelyssQ · 07/11/2020 15:38

Merryn and Xavier

WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants · 07/11/2020 15:38

Remember -you asked!!

Polly - cute but fine for a teen/adult too

Nevina - don't like it
Winter - nope dislike seasons,trees,fruit etc
Helena -dated, not classic
Merryn - unattractive
Perla - nope
Heidi - so dated
Octavia - pretentious

Dominic - nope disliked before Cummings
Xavier nope
Finley - good
Edward -Eddie - good
Fletcher - nope Fletch
Philip -dated
James- over used

Have twins - boy Fin & a girl polly!

meltonmypancake · 07/11/2020 15:53

I actually really like Polly too. I just checked the website "Behind The Name" to get a sense of how well the name is received. Polly has a 57% rating.

To put it into perspective
Lily = 77%
Kelly = 74%
Lucy = 80%
Tilly = 76%
Bonnie = 78%
Cherry = 68%
Ellie = 78%
Molly = 78%
Shelly = 69%

So why is Polly only 57%? Am I missing something...it seems so low for such a lovely name.

Flappingflamingo · 07/11/2020 16:57

Polly- really like
Nevin- never heard of it, really don't like
Winter- one of my pet hates
Helena- like it, how would you pronounce it?
Merryn- not my favourite
Perla- la perla underwear, Pearl is much better
Heidi- it's ok
Octavia- nope

Dominic--really like
Xavier- I like it but you will get various pronunciations
Finley- really don't like
Edward--really really love it 😍
Fletcher- nope
Philip- wouldn't have thought of it but quite like
James- really like

Hope it helps

DramaAlpaca · 07/11/2020 17:00

I like Polly, Helena and Merryn a lot.

I dislike all the other girls' names.

Boys' names are all fine, except for Fletcher.

CharitySchmarity · 07/11/2020 17:09

Polly - I quite like it
Nevina - a new one to me, people would probably get it wrong a lot
Winter - feels more like a boy's name to me for some reason
Helena - quite nice although I slightly prefer just plain Helen
Merryn - interesting and friendly sounding
Perla - don't like this, it feels a bit "rock star's daughter"
Heidi - nice and under-used
Octavia - not awful but not really my thing, sounds a bit upper-class

Dominic - nice, traditional but not too popular
Xavier - not my thing and there are too many pronunciations
Finley - nice, slightly prefer the spelling Finlay
Edward - sounds solid and dependable, not very exciting
Fletcher - surnamey names are not really my thing but it's not the worst
Philip - similar feel to Edward
James - really love it

1940s · 07/11/2020 17:10

Merryn and Edward are my absolute favourites!

TempsPerdu · 07/11/2020 17:58

Polly - no, too cutesy and ‘nursery rhymey’
Nevina - no, sounds made up and a bit cheap
Winter - beautiful for a mn; too chilly for a first!
Helena - classic, timeless, elegant
Merryn - very nice; a ‘happy’ name
Perla - underwear brand; Pearl is much nicer
Heidi - fine but unexciting
Octavia - too stereotypically upper class

Dominic - used to quite like it; now can’t get beyond Cummings
Xavier - nice but will face pronunciation issues
Finley - massively overdone
Edward - nice solid classic
Fletcher - OK; not really my taste
Philip - will come back eventually but still feels dated and a bit weak to me
James - fine but uninspiring

So Helena or Merryn for me (with Winter as a mn option) and Edward or Xavier for a boy.