For DC3 - this is what we have whittled it down to bit I have small reservations about both. Please be brutal, it's what I need!
Rory - actually prefer the Gaelic pronunciation and spelling but we live in a non-English speaking country and half of the family would struggle with pronunciation too, so it doesn't seem fair on the kid to lumber them with a name that nobody can say or spell. Also very popular in Scotland atm and I'm a bit worried it's becoming more of a posh/trendy English name (nothing against either bit I am neither!)
Callum - I like because more traditional Scottish and more timeless perhaps? But on a bad day it makes me think of Gollum in terms of how it sounds and I've never know a Callum with much oomph to them so in my mind it is quite an inoffensive but maybe not so charismatic name.
Despite these reservations they do both rock the boxes of:
I wouldn't feel weird saying "that's my son ..."
Fit with other kids' names
I can shout them easily 😉
Also welcome to other suggestions of a similar vein! I liked Gregor too but DH not so much.