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Top 3 for baby boy due soon

17 replies

Malysh · 13/05/2020 08:08

Hello everyone !

I've tried to narrow it down to a shortlist and I'm considering my top 3. But before I pick one for good I'd like to have maybe one last thought about names that I could like but haven't thought of, would appreciate any help ! I'm 38wk so fast running out of time, eh.

Criteria : must be fairly international, I like names that end in -S, nothing made-up but a bit uncommon is good. I dislike one-syllable names as I like being able to use nicknames.

My top 3 so far :

Mathias Ilya
Axel Mathias/Elias
Elias Axel

Names I've discarded :

  • Lukas (love it but can't get past certain associations)
  • Jonas (don't love it so much)
  • Louis (feel like it doesn't flow with my last name)
  • Joris (too close to DS1's name)
  • Magnus (don't think it'd work in my culture and like it less than Mathias)
  • Markus (same)
  • Joachim (like but don't love)
  • Erik (same)

So anyway, I don't really need opinions on my top 3 as I need to be the one who likes it rather than be swayed by people's opinions, but I'd love suggestions of names in a similar vein.

Thanks in advance !

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Whatsyourflava · 13/05/2020 08:29

Axel is my favourite - love it

Elias sounds very similar to a lot of more popular top 100 names so probably isn't the sort of name youre after

Whatsyourflava · 13/05/2020 08:30

Tristan
Barnaby
Sidney nn Sid
Laurence nn Laurie
Vincent nn Vinnie

Malysh · 13/05/2020 08:38

@whatsyourflava - thanks ! The issue I have is that Axel is already my middle name, and also my brother (baby's uncle) is Alex... So it feels like a lot of similar names in baby's close family. Hasn't put me off 100%, as evidenced by it being in the top 3, but defo making me think twice about it.

Thanks for your other suggestions, I'm afraid Laurence is a girl's name in my country Grin. Sidney feels very english/british, Barnaby is very old-fashioned (reminds me too much of Inspector Barnaby... An old crime TV series).

I do like Tristan but it rhymes with my last name and has the same number of syllables so it sounds really weird when you say the full name.

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LotusClover · 13/05/2020 09:11

Out of your top 3 I think I like Axel Mathias best. It has the best flow and the names go well together.

All the names you listed are very different to my taste so I can't really add any suggestions. Maybe Ellis but that's about it.

LotusClover · 13/05/2020 09:12

Oh and just out of interest, which country are you from?

Spied · 13/05/2020 09:14

Felix

babynamelover · 13/05/2020 10:35

I like Matthias the best 😊.
I adore Jonas. Amos is pretty great too. Willis, Tobias or Maximus.

OnABeachSomewhere · 13/05/2020 12:02

Tobias
Maximus
Linus
Carlos
Marcus
Silas
Moses
Atticus
Elias
Francis
Elias
Miles
Nicholas
Boris
Julius

Malysh · 13/05/2020 14:48

@Lotusclover - I'm french but I travel and live abroad for work reasons. Hence the international choice of names, the kids might go to school in a spanish speaking country one year and in a russian speaking country the next year...

@OnABeachSomewhere - thanks for all the suggestions ! DS1 is already Boris (nothing to do with Johnson, I'm not british so he's as relevant to me as Eltsin or Becker... Just liked the name). Max is definitely a name to consider (though I think I like Maximilian better). Unfortunately a few of those names just wouldn't work in my country - Moses or Atticus would definitely raise eyebrows !

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Malysh · 13/05/2020 14:53

@babynamelover - thanks ! If I had to decide today it'd probably be Mathias but I need to be sure that it is the name Wink

Also I'm not overly fond of Matt as a nickname but maybe I can find another nickname I like better.

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MikeUniformMike · 13/05/2020 15:16

Mathias Ilya
Axel Mathias/Elias
Elias Axel

Is Mathias Mat-ee-as or Math-eye-as?
Is Elias - El-eye-as or El-ee-as? I prefer Ilyas to Elias. Ilya looks wrong.

Of the first names I much prefer Axel but Axel Elias has two el''s next to each other.

MikeUniformMike · 13/05/2020 15:20

Matteo
Tobias
Andreas

KipperTea · 13/05/2020 15:27

I like Elias best, then Mathias.

Other ideas:
Felix
Stephan
Anton
Gabriel
Raphael
Francis
Thomas
Jan/Yann/Yan
Finn/Fynn
Leon
Henry
Max

stopandquarantine · 13/05/2020 18:08

If I had to choose any of your combinations I'd probably go with Axel Elias even though the L sounds so close together does bother me slightly.

Other suggestions

Eli/Elijah/Ellis Mathias
Levi Axel
Julian Mathias

Malysh · 13/05/2020 19:54

@MikeUniformMike - I guess the pronunciation will depend on the language. In my native language it's definitely Matt-ee-as. But I don't really mind if it's pronounced differently when we speak other languages.

Same with Elias, it's El-ee-as in my language but if english speakers say El-aye-as I don't really mind. Nickname would probably be Ellee and not Ee-lie.

Ilya is the russian version of Elias. Ilyas would be the same in arabic. There's nothing wrong with that but I have a connection to Russia that I do not have to Arabic countries, so using the Russian version made sense to me - also, Mathias Ilyas would sound a bit too rhymey for my taste !

I also like Mathias Axel but that means losing the Russian connection and also baby would have the same middle name as me...

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Malysh · 13/05/2020 19:56

Thanks everyone for your thoughts ! I'm mulling over it, good thing I got a few more days to make up my mind ! Doc said if baby doesn't show up by the end of the month we'll talk about inducing so not long now (thank heaven, I'd kill for a cold beer right now !)

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MikeUniformMike · 13/05/2020 20:03

Ilya is fine then.

I suggested Tobias thinking Tob-ee-as.

Use something more Russian esp if the surname is more Arabic-sounding.

There are loads of wonderful Russian names. Isn't the tradition to use the father's name like Mr Putin's ---ovich

Don't worry too much about the middle name, they don't usually get used much.

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