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44 replies

Starfish83 · 06/11/2019 16:51

I’m expecting a baby boy and I’m really loving the name Fabian. 😍 Any (kind) thoughts please? x

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Jossina · 06/11/2019 23:38

Could be worse definitely. It might grow on me.

catinb0oots · 07/11/2019 07:20

Is it pronounced Fabe-ee-an or Fab-ee-an?

Lavenderblues · 07/11/2019 07:40

In German it's pronounced Fab ee an.

In English it's also pronounced Fayb ee an.

Reminds me of Fabian Society.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/11/2019 10:16

The Fabian society was named after a person -'in honour of the Roman general Quintus Fabius Maximus Verrucosus (nicknamed Cunctator, meaning the "Delayer")' according to wiki.

Starfish83 · 07/11/2019 10:58

Thanks Errol. I wonder why they didn’t go for use the name Quintus/Quintan for the society - would have been less of a problem for my baby name choice! 😬

I’m definitely not a Tory, but am a bit bothered if many associate it heavily with politics?!

To add to Lavender’s post re. pronunciation, we’d probably go with the British pronunciation - “Fay-bee-un”. I’m aware the name can also be spelt ‘Fabien’ in other countries but, in France, for example, the name is pronounced differently...

More thoughts welcome...a bit stuck here! x

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Meggymoo777 · 07/11/2019 10:59

I like it, depends on the surname a little I guess? I know a Fabian and it really suits him... and he's far from Tory!

Clawdy · 07/11/2019 11:03

I was madly in love with Fabian, the American singer and actor, when I was about twelve! He was so cute and lovely, I have loved that name ever since!

JonnyPocketRocket · 07/11/2019 11:05

I think it's gorgeous OP!
Can I be really cheeky and ask what other boy's names are on your list? I so rarely hear a boy's name I really like and at 39 weeks am really stuck for what to call ours! Maybe we have similar taste...!?

SallyWD · 07/11/2019 11:06

I really like it.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/11/2019 11:34

I wonder why they didn’t go for use the name Quintus/Quintan for the society - would have been less of a problem for my baby name choice!

Well, there were lots of Quintus's in Rome. There were probably quite a lot called Fabius too... really the society should have gone for the distinctive Maximus Verrucosus (yes, it means 'warty')Grin

Starfish83 · 07/11/2019 11:48

Errol Grin

JonnyPocketRocket, thanks! Other names are currently Raphael, Rufus and Gabriel. I also like Micah, Marius, Griffin and Nikolai. I'm intrigued by your list too? Let's share ideas! Hope you're feeling well.

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Starfish83 · 07/11/2019 16:31

Gentle bump in case there are any more thoughts (and hope you come back, JonnyPocketRocket! 😀)...

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LadyMonicaBaddingham · 07/11/2019 16:49

That's a great name. He you could rebrand his friendship group 'The Fabian Society' for lols to embarrass him as a teen

Starfish83 · 07/11/2019 19:47

Brilliant! Thanks Lady Monica x

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Trustmeimamidwife · 07/11/2019 19:49

Don’t like it at all

Jemimapuddleduk · 07/11/2019 20:35

Love it and know a fab little Faibien.

JonnyPocketRocket · 07/11/2019 22:45

Oh you've got some lovely names on your list @Starfish83!
Micah is on our list too, along with Felix, Emerson, Inigo, Reuben and Casimir (though I'm a bit on-again-off-again with that last one; we don't have any East European heritage...). We also like Arthur, although it seems a little out of place there amongst the other less popular options!

Starfish83 · 08/11/2019 13:43

Thank you, @JonnyPocketRocket - I love your names too! (We can’t have a Felix or Reuben due to those names being in the family already.) Good luck with your choice! I’m going to start a new thread with our shortlist so may see you over there! x

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BonBon411 · 08/11/2019 14:17

JohnnyPocketRocket- love the name Emerson!

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