cant decide ! weve heard too many suggestions [confused] [grin]

[mumtobee1]

need some help i have been overwhelmed by the suggestions and criticism of family and friends that i have reached a point where my brain cant take anymore our favourite names are these:
harry james her
matthew james her
james ? h*er
and other names such as : benjamin , arthur But have no middle names

Matthew James

Matthew James. Harry is very, very popular (my DS has four in his year) and James is pretty popular too. Matthew is a great name, and Matt and Matty are fab too.

Not keen on matthew, so would choose Harry (even though it is a popular name)

I love Matthew James!

I do like Harry but looks like it might be a tongue twister with your surname.

Matthew James

Matthew James is perfect

Harry James. People whose names alliterate are superheroes.

harry james sounds lovely.

James Benjamin
James Matthew
Harry Benjamin
Arthur Benjamin
Benjamin Arthur
Matthew Benjamin

Not Harry James as that's Harry Potter's middle name too.

If I had to pick I'd go James Matthew or Matthew James...

Boring names though, sorry.

If your surname is Her I would probably avoid Benjamin as it will get shortened to Ben and will be too similar to the film Ben Hur...I know it's old and most kids won't be familiar with it to mock him but older people may be a bit

Matthew James is lovely

Matthew James or James Matthew. Both lovely, James is more popular than Matthew but I prefer Jim/Jimmy to Matt so that would probably sway me.

The way you've blocked out the middle three letters is causing my mind to read your surname as Hitler, which is preventing me from being able to work out which name I like more...

Harry Hitler, Matthew Hitler or James Hitler?

Matthew James is lovely ! Harry is too popular.

Mathew James
Benjamin Harry

Harry H*er is a bit too much
Matthew James is nice
James Arthur
James Benjamin etc all good

i assure you its not hitler .

thank you all for the really helpfull comments were looking through them so opefully we will be able to decide . i like Matthew james and he likes harry james so were still decidng but at least we have names we like x

Matthew James

Matthew James, what a lovely name !