When we had DD we just hit upon a name we both loved within 2 mins of discussing it very early on.
This time we know we're having a DS and at 30 wks we're still not close to any first name choices. There's just nothing that really jumps out at me, do I just settle for something I'm not that bothered with. I've almost given up. It was so easy with DD.
If you just settled on a name you weren't crazy about did it grow on you?