So it may be we have a boy (due date tomorrow) and we are sorted for names if we do. But if we have a girl this is the choice which dh has said is more or less mine.
Either
C-- M----
Where C is my favourite name and M is one he likes and I am a but meh about
Or
A-- R--
Where both names are great but I feel I would grieve a bit for C---
Trouble is dd1 is also C- R- so need a different middle initial if we use the C first name.
The C name is more unusual. Dh is worried I'll go off it in due course because it's not a classic name as such. I am worried we won't use it but someone else we know will and I'll be terribly upset because it's 'our' name and rare enough you'd never use it if there was already one in your friendship group.
Should I care about a meh middle name? Will I get over not using favourite name? (second fave is also good). Would two C dd's matter? How have we not decided with just one day, potentially, to go?
Hope it comes soon. Can't bear two more weeks of vacillating about names.