Reuben - Do you think people will call my ds Ruby instead of his actual name?

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The name we both love is Reuben but I'm worried that people will shorten it to Ruby . Is this crazy pregnancy hormones? I'm talking about the majority of people and I don't think you can protect them from everything!

Nope, if any thing then Rubes.
It's a lovely name, my dd has a name with a school nickname that's NOTHING like her name, you never know how it'll ge

I call my friend Ruben, Ru or Rubes. Dp calls him ben.

I have a friend called Rueben and he gets called rue. I think it's a lovely name :)

No. I think it's more likely to be rube, rubes, ru, ben, benny, stuff like that.

It's really not very common to cross gender in name shortening, if that makes any sense.

I can't see it being shortened and it's a lovely name.

I call my friend rueby baby and he loves it!

The little boy I know is called Rue by everyone - never even occured to me that he might be called Ruby

Roo. Though I knew one called Rubes and he got 'Pubes' at school.....

I think it's unlikely in the UK. A family we know has a DS Reuben and they shorten it to Ruby, but they don't speak English so it has different connotations for them (ie not known either as a jewel or a female name).

My nephew is Reuben, only shortened to Ruby in the context of Rooby Dooby Doo to make him giggle! (he's 5)

I haven't heard any nicknames for Reuben.

A relief, thanks for the opinions!!

Going to stick with Reuben, now I just need a middle name!

I know a 4yo Ruben (not spelled Reuben but pronounced the same) and he is NNd Rube or Rubes. It doesn't seem right to NN a boy Ruby (unless you wanted to, of course).

Reuben is my 2nd favourite boys name: second only to Gabriel.

Good luck!

My ds is Reuben and we call him 'Roo' (on a good day ).

Ones I know get called Roo or Rubes.

Ruby Walsh is a Reuben. I really like it as a nn, not keen on it as a girls name.

You can't control nickname once they're at school. Reuben may well get shortened to Roo, Rooby, Roobs, but I think all are cute nicknames personally.

DD1 has a mate called Reuben, and he's just.....Reuben. No-one shortens it.

I know three, none have it shortened to Ruby. Some of the families say 'Roo', but not more widely.

I have an 8 year old Reuben and I call him Roo, Rooly or Roobarb but no one else shortens his name.

madStaringEyes your info is incorrect. Ruby Walsh is actually a Rupert.

I know a Reuben, he is Reuben or Benny! Go figure. :)

The Reuben we know gets called Rubes - love it!