I really like Lilian for a girl - I think it sounds pretty, happy and serious at the same time - if that makes sense! I also like the shortening to Lily. But how does it sound to you? Is it too retro - i.e. old fashioined but not in a good way? I don't want to saddle DD with something that is generally considered frumpy and unpleasant sounding. Does anyone know any Lilians who aren't over the age of 60? Opinions very much appreciated.